CHEMISTRY DOESN'T LIE
Is there a reliable definition of chemistry between a man and a woman? One obvious aspect of “chemistry” is the sense of delight one feels in the presence of another person—that magnetic attraction—wanting to feel his or her touch. Sparks flying from the first eye contact. It’s easy to pick up on, and then body language takes over.
Celeste, 42, a woman of great style and sex appeal, though not particularly beautiful by her own admission, said, “If I see a guy I like at a meeting, a bar, a gym, and I know he’s noticed me, I’ll give him a subtle smile, just a flash of interest. It’s all there for women—they drive this car. If formally introduced, give an extra squeeze in the handshake, or to stress a point, touch his arm during conversation. Smile, laugh at his jokes even if they’re not too funny.”
While some men can be threatened or turned off by the intensity of a women’s initial interest, most are flattered and put at ease by signs of her attraction toward them. Fitting well together, being “in sync” is more likely to happen when men and women are receptive and adventurous.
I remember once on a flight home from London, being seated next to an attractive man who was working on a political campaign. We began a conversation that lasted for hours, and soon he was looking fixedly into my eyes. I could feel the sexual tension, not only his but mine. When we heard the flight attendant announce that we fasten our seat belts for landing, he took my hand in his and squeezed it gently.
“I wish I could see you again,” he said.
“I’d like that too, but I don’t think so. We’re both married.”
We parted when the plane landed, and he rushed off to his connecting flight. Chemistry? Oh yes, that was chemistry. Being relaxed, open and receptive is not a violation of a person’s space—it’s just allowing the vibrancy to percolate even though this was a short-lived interaction that could not go beyond the hours of the flight. Was it genuine? Of course, it was. Chemistry doesn’t lie, and you know it in the very core of your being. It is, in its most basic sense, desire, yearning, lust.
And many older women today have the kind of sex appeal to ignite chemistry.
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1 comments:
Oh, I hate the term MILF. It takes out any sense of the emotional, and rather replaces it with a quick bang and its over, but I know it is a common term and not what you were saying in your blog.
Now, onto your blog. Yes, there is a sense of chemistry, but there has to be more than just physical attraction there. I have seen older women that look very attractive, but it is one of those the lights are on, but no one is home. That is great if you just want a quick roll in the hay, but for a long last relationship, whether it be involved or purely as friendship it really does nothing.
From recent experiences, it is not the flash of skin that does it for me, but the flash of smile, the eyes that light up a room, a touch, just a sense of knowing who they are and their self confidence.
As you said in your blog, sometimes a moment of intimacy can make a lasting memory.
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